LIFE & RELATIONSHIPS
first love
Films centered on the experience of romantic love that is formative and inaugural — defined by the intensity, vulnerability, and world-altering quality of loving before experience has built defenses. The register captures the specific phenomenology of first love: the way it reorganizes perception, the terror and exhilaration of emotional exposure, the sense that this feeling is unprecedented. Typically (though not exclusively) adolescent or young-adult in setting. Distinguished from 'wistful-longing' (which is about unfulfilled adult desire and roads-not-taken) by being specifically about the inaugural quality of the feeling rather than retrospective yearning; distinguished from 'coming-of-age' (which is broader in scope — identity, friendship, family, social formation) by being specifically romantic love as the primary subject rather than one thread among many.

Call Me by Your Name
2017

Your Name Engraved Herein
2020

Blue Is the Warmest Color
2013

Boys
2014

Romeo and Juliet
1968

You Are the Apple of My Eye
2011

On Your Wedding Day
2018

Moonrise Kingdom
2012

Romeo + Juliet
1996

Flipped
2010

Three Steps Above Heaven
2010

West Side Story
1961

West Side Story
2021

Say Anything...
1989

Like Crazy
2011

Summer of 85
2020

The Umbrellas of Cherbourg
1964

20th Century Girl
2022

Love Story
1970

Romeo & Juliet
2013

Sissi
1955

Summer with Monika
1953

A Brighter Summer Day
1991

Tune in for Love
2019

Splendor in the Grass
1961